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jk! Back for an Epilogue
This is the song that never ends Yes it goes on and on, my friends Some people started singing it Not knowing what is was And they'll...
Jun 25, 2024


So Long, Farewell, Auf Wiedersehen, Adieu!
When I sat down to write a closing post, this title popped into my head, which is rather funny because it quickly occurred to me that I...
Apr 1, 2024


Choosing Life Without School
Despite my husband's career in academia, and my own background as a teacher, our kids have led us towards a life without school. I don't...
Sep 11, 2023


Who Will Accommodate Me?
I started this blog thinking I would mostly share learning stories and examples of documentation about the children's education, and that...
Aug 6, 2023


Does the T Stand for Texas?
We are home and healthy! Well, physically, at least. Everyone is fully recovered from our bout of covid, thank goodness. Psychologically,...
Jul 23, 2023


When Life Gives You Covid
The pandemic may technically be over, but the four of us ended up sick with the latest strain of the virus while on vacation! My extended...
Jul 16, 2023


"This is Not the Life I Wanted"
The other day, I watched my children play happily together in the backyard, digging a giant hole in the dirt. They were so engaged in...
Jun 17, 2023


When Making Breakfast Triggers My PTSD
It's breakfast time on a Monday morning. E is in the most typical phase of his Non-24 cycle and slept 9pm-8am - a great night's rest. My...
May 29, 2023


Switch it Up
I have never been a video game person. We had a Sega Genesis as kids, and then an N64, and they were fun, but playing a couple of rounds...
May 24, 2023


Screaming at the Cotton Fields
Radical acceptance is espoused often in PDA parenting circles. We cannot change the child we have in front of us; it is futile (not to...
May 20, 2023


"Mango Full Waffs and Bably!"
Even before I started this blog, I would often journal about the highs and lows of my sleep deprived days, just as a means of survival....
May 6, 2023


Just Me and My Son, and Two Sticks
E asked to have a campfire the other night! It was was a lovely way to spend the evening... and it ended with a panic attack. It was the...
Apr 28, 2023


Parenting a PDAer with Non-24
Up to 80% of autistic children have a sleep disorder, and E happens to have a rare sleep condition that has added another highly complex...
Apr 23, 2023


It's-a me, Mario!
Super Mario has been an off and on interest for E since he was about 4.5. It all started when he picked up this book at the library: We...
Apr 17, 2023


Fish Math
The way E thinks about math is fascinating. He has long been interested in equations. I took the photo below last September after he had...
Apr 13, 2023


From School to Unschool: My Journey as an Educator Unlearning How to Teach
Seven blog posts later, I think I have brought y'all up to speed on our personal backstory! It was cathartic for me to write it all out,...
Mar 31, 2023


I Have PTSD From Parenting
Complex PTSD to be exact. CPTSD is distinct because it can occur after experiencing long term or recurring trauma rather than a single...
Mar 25, 2023


There is No One Coming to Save Our Family
While we have slowly built a support team of a few professionals who "get it," they play a necessary but peripheral role in our story....
Mar 22, 2023


Trauma and Triumph: Two Very Different Autism Evaluations
I've danced around finishing this post for a few weeks because reliving E's first autism assessment is hard for me. I stopped and started...
Mar 14, 2023


No Time to Lose: Making Changes at Home While Waiting on an Autism Evaluation
We were finally moving forward. I had survived years in the dark not knowing the reason my child was struggling, no professional so far...
Feb 27, 2023
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